cannot load into friends world

Went into caves, started loading and eventually lagged out

When i tried to re enter, i was met with this message.

It will not let me re login even tho we are both on the same update.

When i am invited, it actually does let me im but i am met with infinite load screen and i lag out on my friends end.

I suspect that if we rolled back to before i went into caves it might fix it but its too late for that unfortunetly, too many days have passed.

Friend has ps4, me a ps5