Disconnected when giving multiple auto-attacks to some sort of mobs like hounds, deerclops etc ( also when i put bee boxes )

Hi there! Whenever me and my partner  attack  with more than one auto attack we get dc from the server. When he attacks are more chances for us to get disconnected. It doesn't happen every time, but really often and its pretty hurtful and exhausting to do the same tasks over and over again and get stuck at the same day cause the progress of the days doesn't get saved when we get dc. We also encounter this problem when we put bee boxes. Does anyone encountered this problem? I tried without mods and also validating the steam files and isnt working, if somebody knows whats going I would be grateful to get some help.